I am a victim of reactive abuse. He provoked me to no end and I walk away and he tells me not to so I come back into the room and he provoked me more and after years of this this last time he said I am recording you after I reacted he started recording. Then I tried to take the phone away to stop the recording but I couldn’t get to it Now he wants to use it against me saying I am the crazy one when it doesn’t show what happened before I started yelling.