{"id":15230,"date":"2020-07-12T12:11:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T19:11:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=15230"},"modified":"2022-08-27T10:51:53","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T17:51:53","slug":"sandra-taylor-survivor-sister-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=15230","title":{"rendered":"Sandra Taylor Survivor Sister Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bridal Illusion<\/p>\n<p>Bridal illusion is a soft mesh net fabric often used for veils or <\/p>\n<p>layered over opaque cloth to create a translucent, ethereal effect. <\/p>\n<p>Illusions are peaceful places. She preferred living there. All rough <\/p>\n<p>edges are softened. Even the barbs from the few spearheads that <\/p>\n<p>do penetrate, dissolve and the spear can be easily removed <\/p>\n<p>leaving only a tiny speck indicating where the puncture had been. <\/p>\n<p>No pain whatsoever. In illusion, all flatware is sterling, all <\/p>\n<p>Christmases gilded, all china Limoges. The plans to smother her <\/p>\n<p>one Autumn day in the deserted Forest Preserve in northern <\/p>\n<p>Illinois, on the uphill footpath, by holding his palm over her mouth <\/p>\n<p>and nose, and then to slide their infant under the surface of the <\/p>\n<p>nearby river until he drifted away, thwarted only by the sounds of <\/p>\n<p>distance, muted conversations, were misunderstandings. Later, <\/p>\n<p>she thought the sideboard too angular, so she wrapped it in <\/p>\n<p>illusion. It looked better that way.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nNotice: The names in this story are fictitious to protect the request for anonymity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Survivor Sister Sandra Taylor speaks out breaking her silence about domestic violence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,522],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-break-your-silence","category-sister-survivors"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Sandra Taylor Survivor Sister Story<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Survivor Sister Sandra Taylor speaks out breaking their silence about domestic violence telling their story and experience dealing with domestic violence directly.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=15230\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Sandra Taylor Breaks the Silence Against Domestic Violence\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Sandra Taylor Breaks the Silence Against Domestic Violence. 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