{"id":19024,"date":"2024-05-02T16:04:05","date_gmt":"2024-05-02T23:04:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024"},"modified":"2024-05-16T17:34:19","modified_gmt":"2024-05-17T00:34:19","slug":"unveiling-gaslighting-deceptive-manipulation-in-modern-media-by-victoria-tatum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024","title":{"rendered":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We may usually think of someone being physically assaulted when we hear the<br>term \u201cdomestic violence,\u201d but attacks on mental health are undoubtedly a part of it.<br>Gaslighting is a tool of manipulation for abusers in which they make a victim question<br>their perception of reality. Below are a few examples of gaslighting in modern television<br>and novels.<br>Fool Me Once: Within the first episode of the limited series on Netflix, based on the<br>novel by Harlan Coben, Maya Stern is gaslit into thinking her dead husband is<br>alive. When she receives a nanny cam from one of her dearest friends, she uses it,<br>unaware that it can be hacked and manipulated by outside sources\u2014like her mother-in-<br>law. Maya appears to the rest of the world as a grieving widow driven mad after her<br>husband\u2019s death, all because she saw a false video of her late spouse with her<br>daughter in their own home. She eventually begins to doubt herself, denying that she<br>ever saw the clip.<br>Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros: In this sequel to the extremely popular fantasy novel<br>Fourth Wing, Professor Markham, a teacher in the war college of Basgiath, blatantly<br>gaslights an entire class in one sitting. When a piece of paper appears on all of their<br>seats stating that a \u201cprovince has fallen to the blue fire dragons and their riders,\u201d he<br>collects all of them and asks the class: \u201cWhen, in the history of Navarre, have we ever<br>flown a riot compromised only of blue dragons?\u201d He changes the wording to<br>make the students second guess themselves. They read that the dragons were<br>breathing blue fire, meaning they were different than normal dragons in the series, but<br>he manipulates his audience into thinking they were blue-colored dragons. Leaders<br>can use this tool to fool an entire group of people into believing a distorted reality.<br>Riverdale: Cheryl, although one of my favorite characters, has long red hair and a strong camera presence, and she has gaslit her girlfriend, Toni Topaz. Wildly inappropriate even<br>by Riverdale standards, Cheryl has such difficulty reburying her twin brother Jason\u2019s<br>corpse (that she has kept in the family chapel in a wheelchair, naturally) that she<br>gaslights Toni into thinking he is haunting them. She removes an old doll and moves it<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We may usually think of someone being physically assaulted when we hear theterm \u201cdomestic violence,\u201d but attacks on mental health are undoubtedly a part of it.Gaslighting is a tool of manipulation for abusers in which they make a victim questiontheir perception of reality. Below are a few examples of gaslighting in modern televisionand novels.Fool Me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":164,"featured_media":19025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,569],"tags":[92,161,162,90,665,116,117,128,34],"class_list":["post-19024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-domestic-abuse","tag-abuse","tag-break-the-silence-against-domestic-violence","tag-btsadv","tag-domestic-violence","tag-eltmpl","tag-emotional-abuse","tag-physical-abuse","tag-trauma","tag-verbal-abuse"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix&#039;s &quot;Fool Me Once&quot; to the fantasy realm of &quot;Iron Flame&quot; and the dramatic twists of &quot;Riverdale.&quot; Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix&#039;s &quot;Fool Me Once&quot; to the fantasy realm of &quot;Iron Flame&quot; and the dramatic twists of &quot;Riverdale.&quot; Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/btsadv\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1080\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"1080\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/png\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Website Director\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@btsadv\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@btsadv\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Website Director\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Website Director\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/f61870953cda3e174db9a616bd685513\"},\"headline\":\"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024\"},\"wordCount\":370,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/05\\\/Subheading-9.png\",\"keywords\":[\"abuse\",\"break the silence against domestic violence\",\"btsadv\",\"domestic violence\",\"eltmpl\",\"emotional abuse\",\"physical abuse\",\"trauma\",\"verbal abuse\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Blog\",\"Domestic Abuse\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024\",\"name\":\"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/05\\\/Subheading-9.png\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00\",\"description\":\"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix's \\\"Fool Me Once\\\" to the fantasy realm of \\\"Iron Flame\\\" and the dramatic twists of \\\"Riverdale.\\\" Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/05\\\/Subheading-9.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/05\\\/Subheading-9.png\",\"width\":1080,\"height\":1080},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?p=19024#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/\",\"name\":\"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\",\"description\":\"The National Voice of Domestic Violence\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2020\\\/11\\\/breakthesilence_logo_2021-01-e1611794569296.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2020\\\/11\\\/breakthesilence_logo_2021-01-e1611794569296.png\",\"width\":3930,\"height\":1160,\"caption\":\"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.facebook.com\\\/btsadv\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/btsadv\",\"http:\\\/\\\/instagram.com\\\/btsadv\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/btsadv\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/f61870953cda3e174db9a616bd685513\",\"name\":\"Website Director\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Website Director\"},\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/breakthesilencedv.org\\\/?author=164\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","description":"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix's \"Fool Me Once\" to the fantasy realm of \"Iron Flame\" and the dramatic twists of \"Riverdale.\" Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","og_description":"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix's \"Fool Me Once\" to the fantasy realm of \"Iron Flame\" and the dramatic twists of \"Riverdale.\" Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.","og_url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024","og_site_name":"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/btsadv","article_published_time":"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00","article_modified_time":"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1080,"height":1080,"url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png","type":"image\/png"}],"author":"Website Director","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@btsadv","twitter_site":"@btsadv","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Website Director","Est. reading time":"2 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024"},"author":{"name":"Website Director","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#\/schema\/person\/f61870953cda3e174db9a616bd685513"},"headline":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media","datePublished":"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00","dateModified":"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024"},"wordCount":370,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png","keywords":["abuse","break the silence against domestic violence","btsadv","domestic violence","eltmpl","emotional abuse","physical abuse","trauma","verbal abuse"],"articleSection":["Blog","Domestic Abuse"],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024","url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024","name":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media - Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png","datePublished":"2024-05-02T23:04:05+00:00","dateModified":"2024-05-17T00:34:19+00:00","description":"Explore how gaslighting, a tool of manipulation often associated with domestic violence, manifests in contemporary television series and novels, from Netflix's \"Fool Me Once\" to the fantasy realm of \"Iron Flame\" and the dramatic twists of \"Riverdale.\" Learn how characters are made to doubt their reality, reflecting the insidious nature of gaslighting in real-life abusive dynamics.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Subheading-9.png","width":1080,"height":1080},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19024#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/","name":"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","description":"The National Voice of Domestic Violence","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#organization","name":"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence","url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/breakthesilence_logo_2021-01-e1611794569296.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/breakthesilence_logo_2021-01-e1611794569296.png","width":3930,"height":1160,"caption":"Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/btsadv","https:\/\/x.com\/btsadv","http:\/\/instagram.com\/btsadv","https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/btsadv"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/#\/schema\/person\/f61870953cda3e174db9a616bd685513","name":"Website Director","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/3e3f1747851b3e265ccb706831001e958960bfacc2be80f054635d835e86cda1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Website Director"},"url":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?author=164"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/164"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19024\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}