{"id":19041,"date":"2024-05-10T06:04:36","date_gmt":"2024-05-10T13:04:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19041"},"modified":"2024-05-13T15:49:11","modified_gmt":"2024-05-13T22:49:11","slug":"a-reflection-on-a-past-relationship-and-recognizing-domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19041","title":{"rendered":"A Reflection on a Past Relationship and Recognizing Domestic Violence&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Steve &#8211; nice guy met on a dating site I dated about 10 years ago.. I just realised how to describe how he treated me. It&#8217;s called DV. We date for an intense couple of months or so&#8230; Catching up as much as we could. Everyone who met him thought he was wonderful. He even met my parents. 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( My legal counsel advised he would not be able to ) You know I used to just think he was a gold digging ass&#8230; I just realised he was indeed a gold digger&#8230; But much also a DV perp&#8230; I actually think he could have turned very dangerous physically and otherwise&#8230; I do not think I was the first by any means .. I think I made an early and lucky escape\ud83c\udf37 But he got away with it .. then. Times are different now .. ONLY because all of you are saying NO! And telling your stories&#8230; Hopefully because of you, people like Steve will either stop before they start, or be bought to justice. Thankyou for giving me the voice to tell my story &#8230; I believe you sister I just realised how to describe how he treated me. It&#8217;s called DV. We date for an intense couple of months or so&#8230; Catching up as much as we could. Everyone who met him thought he was wonderful. He even met my parents. 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