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Names have been changed to protect all involved.**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Survivor&#8217;s Plea for Safety<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m desperate for help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s been seven years I&#8217;ve been divorced, and my ex-husband still stalks me daily. He threatens me and in the past, I&#8217;ve had orders to protect me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, the orders did nothing but cost me contempts in court from his mom retaliating on me financially. I just need some safety and security in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My two daughters love me and want to be in my life, but he makes it impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Check These Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/understanding-coercive-control\/\">Understanding Coercive Control<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/online-dating-safety\/\">Online Dating Safety<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/complete-guide-to-mindful-meditation-and-emotional-healing\/\">Complete Guide to Mindful Meditation, and Emotional Healing.<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/the-hidden-impact-of-teen-dating-violence-on-mental-health-identity-and-confidence\/\">The Hidden Impact of Teen Dating Violence<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/survivor-support\/\">Find Support with BTSADV<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/support-line\/\">Support Line<\/a><br><br><strong>Other Resources and Information:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/acfmain-stage.acf.hhs.gov\/ofvps\/fv-centers\">Resource Centers | The Administration for Children and Families<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\">National Domestic Violence Hotline: Domestic Violence Support<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/get-help\/domestic-violence-local-resources\/\">Local Resources for Survivors | The Hotline<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Anonymous Survivor **The following is written by survivors of domestic violence and abuse seeking safety. Names have been changed to protect all involved.** A Survivor&#8217;s Plea for Safety I&#8217;m desperate for help. It&#8217;s been seven years I&#8217;ve been divorced, and my ex-husband still stalks me daily. 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