{"id":20320,"date":"2025-09-20T13:17:01","date_gmt":"2025-09-20T20:17:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=20320"},"modified":"2025-09-20T13:17:08","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T20:17:08","slug":"sticks-and-stones-a-dangerous-myth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=20320","title":{"rendered":"\u201cSticks and Stones\u201d \u2013 A Dangerous Myth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">By Misty Medders<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of us grew up hearing the childhood chant: \u201cSticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s be honest\u2014that phrase is a crock of crap. Words do hurt. They linger, echo, and shape the way we see ourselves and the world around us. Unlike a bruise or a scrape, the damage caused by verbal abuse is often invisible but far more lasting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verbal abuse may not leave physical scars, but it leaves emotional wounds that cut deep into self-worth, confidence, and mental health. Survivors often hear hurtful words repeated in their minds long after the moment has passed. Those words take root, convincing them they are unworthy, unloved, or powerless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Is Verbal Abuse?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verbal abuse is more than just yelling. It can be subtle, disguised as \u201cjokes,\u201d sarcasm, or constant criticism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It includes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Insults that attack a person\u2019s character<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Threats meant to instill fear<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Gaslighting that distorts reality<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Shaming or belittling remarks<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Harsh self-talk we inflict on ourselves<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over time, verbal abuse can destroy confidence, cause anxiety or depression, and keep survivors trapped in cycles of fear and silence. It&#8217;s not just sticks and stones, and words that don&#8217;t hurt us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Words to Others: The Power to Harm or Heal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every word we speak carries weight. For survivors of domestic violence, harsh words are often used as weapons\u2014tools to control, isolate, and tear down. A partner may use daily put-downs, blame, or ridicule to strip away identity and independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yet, just as words can break, they can also build. Words of encouragement, kindness, and respect create safety, connection, and hope. They validate survivors\u2019 experiences and remind them of their worth. At BTSADV, we see firsthand how a simple phrase like \u201cYou are not alone\u201d can be life-changing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Words to Yourself: Watch Your Inner Voice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It isn\u2019t just what others say to us that matters\u2014it\u2019s what we say to ourselves. Self-directed verbal abuse can be just as damaging. How often do we silently think: \u201cI\u2019m so stupid,\u201d \u201cI\u2019ll never get it right,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m not good enough\u201d? Does that just sound like a nursery rhyme like &#8220;sticks and stones?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When those thoughts repeat daily, they shape beliefs and behaviors. Survivors especially struggle with this because abusers\u2019 words become their own inner critic. Healing begins when we challenge that internal voice, replacing it with self-compassion: \u201cI am strong,\u201d \u201cI deserve love,\u201d \u201cI will heal.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Long-Term Impact of Verbal Abuse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verbal abuse, or sticks and stones, may not leave broken bones, but research shows it can impact health just as seriously. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Survivors may experience the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Low self-esteem and shame<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anxiety, depression, or PTSD<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Difficulty trusting others<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Trouble setting boundaries<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Physical health struggles linked to chronic stress<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These scars often follow survivors into adulthood, shaping relationships, careers, and parenting. That is why awareness and intervention matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Breaking the Silence on Verbal Abuse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At Break the Silence Against Domestic Violence (BTSADV), we believe that words can break cycles\u2014or continue them. That\u2019s why we encourage survivors, families, and communities to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acknowledge verbal abuse. Don\u2019t minimize it. Name it for what it is\u2014abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Choose words with care. Replace criticism with compassion, judgment with encouragement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speak healing into survivors\u2019 lives. A supportive community helps counteract years of verbal harm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Challenge your inner critic. Start reframing self-talk with affirmations and truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Support organizations like BTSADV. Together, we provide education, healing programs, and resources that empower survivors to reclaim their voices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Hope, Healing, and the Power of Voice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth is simple: words matter. They can chain someone to years of shame, or they can unlock doors to freedom and healing. Survivors deserve voices that uplift, not voices that destroy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">BTSADV stands as proof that when survivors reclaim their voices, transformation happens. Through scholarships, retreats, and community programs, we empower survivors to replace lies with truth: You are strong. You are valuable. You are not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Action Today Against the &#8220;Sticks and Stones&#8221; Mentality <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you recognize verbal abuse in your life or someone else\u2019s, don\u2019t ignore it. Support is available, and healing is possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Join us in breaking the silence by:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sharing this message with your community<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Practicing positive language in your relationships<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Supporting BTSADV\u2019s mission through donations or volunteering<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Words may hurt, but together, we can make words heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Check These Resources:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19874\">Therapeutic Interventions for Healing From Domestic Violence<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=19655\">The Hidden Impact of Teen Dating Violence<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?page_id=13225\">Find Support with BTSADV<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?page_id=16319\">Support Line<\/a><br><br><strong>Other Resources and Information:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/acfmain-stage.acf.hhs.gov\/ofvps\/fv-centers\">Resource Centers | The Administration for Children and Families<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\">National Domestic Violence Hotline: Domestic Violence Support<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/get-help\/domestic-violence-local-resources\/\">Local Resources for Survivors | The Hotline<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Misty Medders Most of us grew up hearing the childhood chant: \u201cSticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.\u201d Let\u2019s be honest\u2014that phrase is a crock of crap. 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