{"id":345,"date":"2022-07-26T09:13:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-26T16:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/c76.aa7.myftpupload.com\/?p=345"},"modified":"2024-05-14T16:17:52","modified_gmt":"2024-05-14T23:17:52","slug":"break-the-cycle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/breakthesilencedv.org\/?p=345","title":{"rendered":"Break the Cycle"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m 22 years old. I was in a relationship with this man since November 2010 and left October 2013. In the coarse of our relationship the first thing he did was jerk me off the couch by my hair and it progressed worst over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One day we got&nbsp;into a argument, I don&#8217;t even remember what about, but he choked me until I lost consciousness. I woke to him checking my pulse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another incident, we were having a party and he beat me in front of everyone. 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I had a gun pointed to my head. There has been countless times where I thought I would die.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally over this last summer he was in jail, I ran into the man that was my childhood love. When my ex got out and found out, he saw me at the store, jumped in my truck and said he wanted to talk. He took my phone, read my text and saw that I thought I was pregnant. 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