Mother’s Day After an Abusive Mom
There are so many of us that love Mother’s Day. We get to show all our love and appreciation for our mothers. They have raised, supported, loved, and taught us. Those nights when we feared thunder, they would hold us all night. Then they held us all night with our first heartbreak, and we cried […]
6 Ways to Celebrate Motherhood After Leaving an Abusive Partner
“Life doesn’t come with a manual; it comes with a mother.” Unknown Mother’s Day becomes a tough occasion to celebrate if you are someone who has recently moved out of an abusive relationship. Yet, it doesn’t have to be a day where you experience grieving, sadness, nor loneliness. Rather, it should be a day to […]
Prioritizing Women’s Mental Health: Tips for Self-Care
It is often said that one cannot pour from an empty cup, which means caring for yourself before caring for others. Statistics have repeatedly shown that women’s mental health is more at risk than men’s. With women often being loaded with so many responsibilities, which range from caring for the children, maintaining a job, being […]
10 Ways Domestic Violence Impacts Children
One in seven children and young people under the age of eighteen have lived with domestic violence. Being a victim or witnessing domestic abuse, especially at a young age, can affect one’s well-being and development. Aggressive behavior Victims living with abuse at home often display similar, externalized behaviors. Fighting, lying, cheating, bullying, and impatience are […]
The Connection Between Animal Cruelty and Domestic Violence: A Warning Sign You Should Not Ignore
You are a busy and hard-working woman. You work long hours and take care of everything at home as well. You hear your man upset when you get home and walk into the house. He tells you how bad your dog has been all day and has gone to the bathroom inside. Instead of arguing […]
Why I stayed in an abusive relationship for over 18 years: My story
If it was so bad, why didn’t you leave? Why did you stay for over 18 years if it was so bad? These are the questions people have asked countless times since I left the abusive relationship nearly 3 years ago. I had several reasons why I should have left, but I did not. There were […]