| I dont know where to start .the abuser ,randy is now deceased thank god .he went after at least 5 women ,and tried to end their lives .it started when i got introduced to him by a friend atv17.i never saw him after 2weeks again.found out he gad a gf and was going to marry her which he did .she got away from him.he was ok after meeting again after 25 years or more .he refused to leave my home .i tried everything .so i caved .he found me a home to rent in a nearby town.he robbed my apt along with our longtime friend .dan is also now deceased .plus i never new he was an addict .i keep thinking that all these people are the same as i rem.them theyre not .he ended up assaulting my babysitter on st patricks day .i had to fight him off this person .he decided he make it up to me by giving me a diamond ring and asked ne to marry him .the whole time ges telkong me about his abusive father its not clicking in my head yet .i moved .but he robved me again telking me it was a black man.as soon as i moved he started .hitting ne spitting beer at me kicked my door in i was not there a month .i replaced the door i had an 11 year old in the home .punched me in the face with a beer can inside his fist .he stole my spare keys to my truck to steal tools a jumper box from sears my dad gave me ,and my dad died 2 months after. .his father spit at me ,after,i came out and caufht them again in my vehicle.he beat me when my dad died .i got rid of him only to find out 2 neighbors were hiding him .and one was a nasty old lady who stitched his face up after he tried to take control of my steering wheel in my truck 1,to slam into the highway walland 2 it was because he wasnt driving my truck .the 1st was because he was next to another male in the teuck .he thought it wasnt correct .he was getting high and drink at a neighbors home accross the street .but in the truck he was being violitale ,so i was asked to drive hm by my guest .he got out ascwe arrived randy did also he tried grabbing me throught the window ge let go tried coming at me again i bit him in the face .this female neighbor hid him in her celkar and sewed his face up .i took off .my child was with her father .he got taken away the police told hlme what this neighbor did .ive had issues abd have moved and still have issues with this person shes now 86 years old .25,000 bond for atrempted murder .he tried to choke me after that to death for my money…… he refused to leave my home kept coming back, refusing to leave .i kept calling the cops .but he would run off every time .he only spent 2 years in jail for it .and they never contacted me to lmk he was out .this is an issye .they dont do what they say .the program .so he tried harassing my child .kept coming to where i lived .if my truck was seen hecwas there .he found a gf and still tried to contact me a a froends funeral or just apoearing out of noplace .it was bad hecbeat me for not buying him a phone .i would not let him take my truck i had a previous issue gecwent after my babysitter again at his mothers house 5-6guys on him he wouldnt stop.cops showed up 6 cars strong i pulled out of the area he followed cops never got him .he tried jumping into my truck i stopped and shoved him out he only wanted my cooler with ale in it .he again folowed me running on foot mind you another 1-1/2miles up the road jumped into the bed of the truck smashed my back window out with my chikd invtge truck.i pulled over he fell out of the bed ofvthe truck with a cop following me .i tore out of there i got home ge was right behind me idk how he got away fromvthat cop .cop saw him smash and fall out of the truck i hauled ass out of there .i have so much more im lucky to be alive they want my cash or my vehicle his ex wife had found outcwgere he worked started calking tellingvthem what he was and they got rid of him.cops arent vigilant and when u have beighbors that will help them its disgusting .the cops told me about her gelping him she needed to be arrested tbey refused .i again tried there excuse was we cannotvprove she helped him omg !. I have many others and could go on this is nothing ,beaten until my face was balck and purple unrecognizable they arrested me let him out after 15 minutes .he new the cop and his brother .i could go on .and on .beaten left for dead 2xs .dragfed down a main road in my hmtown. And theyvall sided with these abusers .its my fault … |
The Journey of a Domestic Violence Survivor: Healing and Resilience
By Survivor The life of a Survivor of Domestic ViolenceThe repair of the abuse is never repaired because the damage is too unrepairable, mental or physical abuse stays with the survivor for life.Future relationships will be affected by the triggers of the survivor and the relationship will usually suffer, to...
