By Iris Pendleton
Strangulation is one of the most devastating forms of domestic violence and a chilling indicator that a relationship has reached a lethal level. The tragic story of Gabby Petito in 2021 brought global attention to the dangers of intimate partner violence (IPV) and the critical need to recognize warning signs like strangulation before it’s too late.
Gabby Petito: A Tragic Reminder
Gabby Petito, a vibrant 22-year-old, embarked on a cross-country road trip with her fiancé, Brian Laundrie, in the summer of 2021. Her disappearance—and the subsequent discovery of her body—shocked the world. The autopsy revealed Gabby died by manual strangulation, highlighting the lethal potential of IPV.
In the weeks leading up to her death, Gabby displayed clear signs of distress. During a police stop in Moab, Utah, bodycam footage showed her visibly upset. Despite documenting the incident, officers failed to identify Gabby as a victim of abuse, categorizing the situation as a mutual dispute. This misinterpretation emphasizes the urgent need for improved training to recognize the dynamics of IPV.
Gabby’s story serves as a heartbreaking reminder that strangulation is not just another form of abuse; it is often a precursor to homicide.
Strangulation as a Predictor of Lethality
Strangulation is one of the strongest indicators of escalating violence in abusive relationships. Research shows that victims of non-fatal strangulation are 750% more likely to be killed by their abuser. This act is more than physical harm; it is a demonstration of ultimate control and a warning that the abuser can and will take a life.
The Physical and Psychological Impact of Strangulation
- Physical Damage: Strangulation may cause brain damage, blood clots, and internal injuries that can be fatal days or weeks later, even without visible marks.
- Psychological Terror: Survivors often experience deep trauma, reinforcing their abuser’s dominance and making it even harder to escape.
Recognizing the Signs and Acting Decisively
Recognizing the signs of strangulation is vital to protecting victims. Symptoms may include:
- Trouble breathing or speaking
- Difficulty swallowing or neck pain
- Dizziness, confusion, or unconsciousness
- Bruising or red marks on the neck (not always visible)
- Broken blood vessels in the eyes or face
If strangulation occurs, immediate medical attention is critical. Internal injuries can be life-threatening, even in the absence of visible symptoms.
Supporting Victims and Raising Awareness
Gabby Petito’s story underscores the importance of early intervention and support for victims. Here’s how you can help:
- Listen and Believe Victims: Take their accounts seriously without judgment.
- Encourage Action: Share resources such as hotlines, shelters, and safety planning tools.
- Educate Yourself and Others: Learn to recognize escalating abuse, including signs of strangulation, isolation, and threats.
- Advocate for Change: Push for better training for law enforcement and comprehensive responses to IPV cases.
Gabby’s Legacy
In memory of Gabby Petito, her family established the Gabby Petito Foundation to raise awareness about IPV and support survivors. Her story has inspired critical conversations about the dangers of abusive relationships and the need for systemic change.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit www.thehotline.org.
Conclusion
Gabby Petito’s life was tragically cut short, but her story has sparked a movement to address the lethal risks of IPV, especially strangulation. By recognizing the signs, supporting survivors, and advocating for change, we can honor her memory and work toward a safer future.
Strangulation is not just an act of violence; it is a silent warning of escalating danger. Together, we can raise awareness, support survivors, and strive for a world where no one lives in fear.
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