By Survivor Kelly
I am a domestic abuse survivor.. I endured abuse over 4yrs.. To write my whole experience the beatings every day 365 days a yr over 4 yrs is alot to write.. F he cheated.. He used to pay for sexual favours from other women.. He hated that I knew his next move that I got inside his head .. for 4 yrs he hit me.. Spat at me.. Bit me.. Strangled me.. Dragged me across gravel car parks.. Dragged me by the hair into his car.. Throw stuff at my face.. Numerous black eyes.. Broken nose.. Knocked 10teeth out fractured my skull.. Harrassed me.. Gave me sexually transmitted diseases because he cheated on me with a prostitute.. Blackmailed me to have sex to avoid him cheating telling me he will go else where.. Putting pornography on in front of me to make me react and give him what he wanted.. threatened my family his broke 4 breachs of restraining order..his up for 3 different court cases daring back to July 2021 and all are ongoing..
Abh
Gbh
Controlling coercive behavior
Harrassment
Breach restraining order 4 times
Breach of suspended sentence and court bail
Assault
Assault by beating
Stalking without fear
July 2021 he neatly killed me.. And the justice system still in November 2024 ..3 and half yrs are still letting women down and failing victims with lengthy court date waiting times.. My perpetrator is now back on remand and I’m awaiting court date for his sentencing at crown court.. This isn’t even a scratch of the surface story of what I endured and still struggling with as a survivor of domestic abuse.. So after watching the documentary on domestic abuse last night. I’m going to write to the queen and tell my story properly which I need to do to heal and help others
