Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media

We may usually think of someone being physically assaulted when we hear theterm “domestic violence,” but attacks on mental health are undoubtedly a part of it.Gaslighting is a tool of manipulation for abusers in which they make a victim questiontheir perception of reality. Below are a few examples of gaslighting in modern televisionand novels.Fool Me […]

Animal Warriors

Animals can play a significant role in helping domestic violence survivors in numerous ways. Here are some ways animals can provide support and comfort: Emotional Support: Animals, particularly pets like dogs and cats, offer unconditional love and companionship. Their presence can help survivors feel less lonely and provide emotional support during challenging times.  Reducing Stress […]

The Myth of the Healing Timeline

A few words on healing. Even though I am in a healthy marriage, I am sometimes triggered by my past. I sometimes shudder and shake when disturbing memories of the past abuse creep into my mind. My breath becomes shallow, and I may shake. I have to close my eyes and remember that I’m safe. […]

How to Guides: Children Witnessing Abuse and How to Speak Out

“The greater a child’s terror, and the earlier it is experienced, the harder it becomes todevelop a strong and healthy sense of self.”― Nathaniel BrandenPeople tend to believe that children don’t observe anything. However, they are the bestjudge of their surroundings. Children have this sixth sense of feeling, observing, and sensingthings that prove to be […]

A Letter to My Rapist: From a Survivor”

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A Letter to my Rapist; From a survivor… Every year, the month of April is dedicated to those who survived sexual assault, domestic abuse and rape. One month is given to the survivors; a so-called safe place to raise awareness and speak our truth. Now to you, this mere month might not mean a lot, […]

Providing Sanctuary for Survivors of Domestic Violence and Their Pets

23-year-old Sara is considering leaving the abusive relationship, but the thought of possibly having toleave her dog Waggy behind fills her with anxiety, fear, and dread. She knows that many shelterswon’t accept pets, and the idea of leaving Waggy alone with the abuser’s anger terrifies her. Sarasilently vows to herself that she will find a […]