Unveiling Gaslighting: Deceptive Manipulation in Modern Media

We may usually think of someone being physically assaulted when we hear theterm “domestic violence,” but attacks on mental health are undoubtedly a part of it.Gaslighting is a tool of manipulation for abusers in which they make a victim questiontheir perception of reality. Below are a few examples of gaslighting in modern televisionand novels.Fool Me […]

The Forgotten: Animals are Survivors Too

I’ll be honest, my Sweetie Pie always had faith. She was the salt of the earth. My Bentley, well, every day washis first. They enjoyed the life before DV. My Great Gatsby was welcomed in during the height of theabuse, more so a gift for my stepson, because my abuser felt that would win him […]

Animal Warriors

Animals can play a significant role in helping domestic violence survivors in numerous ways. Here are some ways animals can provide support and comfort: Emotional Support: Animals, particularly pets like dogs and cats, offer unconditional love and companionship. Their presence can help survivors feel less lonely and provide emotional support during challenging times.  Reducing Stress […]

Nurturing Empowerment: Teaching Youth About Domestic Violence

Our sons and daughters are at the forefront when it comes to helping stop domesticviolence. What we choose to tell them and teach them about could make all the difference for thefuture. It is important to be careful with how we teach the youth, while simultaneouslyempowering them.When beginning to teach about domestic violence, it may […]

The Myth of the Healing Timeline

A few words on healing. Even though I am in a healthy marriage, I am sometimes triggered by my past. I sometimes shudder and shake when disturbing memories of the past abuse creep into my mind. My breath becomes shallow, and I may shake. I have to close my eyes and remember that I’m safe. […]

How to Guides: Children Witnessing Abuse and How to Speak Out

“The greater a child’s terror, and the earlier it is experienced, the harder it becomes todevelop a strong and healthy sense of self.”― Nathaniel BrandenPeople tend to believe that children don’t observe anything. However, they are the bestjudge of their surroundings. Children have this sixth sense of feeling, observing, and sensingthings that prove to be […]