Speaking Out Against Abusers
By Rebecca Lynn What would our world be without communication? Communication is essential for society to function. Communication, regardless of what form it takes, allows us to have social relationships, ask questions, understand others, inform, and gain knowledge. Communication has always been a part of society, primarily through storytelling. Telling a story is powerful; it […]
Stalking: What is It and How Can I Stay Safe?
By Rebecca Lynn According to the Centers for Disease, Control, and Prevention, 1 in 6 women, and 1 in 17 men have experienced stalking during their lifetimes. The Stalking Resource Center reports that 61% of those women and 44% of men are stalked by current or former intimate partners. For this article, we will focus […]
Safety Planning with Children
By Rebecca Lynn According to the Domestic Abuse Shelter of the Florida Keys, 75% of victims who lose their lives to domestic violence are murdered while leaving, or after leaving their abuser. Let that soak in for one moment: whether you are a victim who is still with your abuser, a survivor who is still […]
“Why Don’t You Just Leave?” The Dangers of Leaving and Why You Should Have a Safety Plan
No matter how many gains we make in the fight against domestic violence, victims and survivors alike cannot seem to escape one of the most troublesome questions they face when disclosing abuse: “Why don’t you just leave?” This question reveals the very real lack of awareness regarding the dangers victims and survivors of domestic violence […]
Ending Unhealthy Relationships
No relationship is perfect There is no such thing as the “perfect relationship.” Human beings by nature are imperfect, and their relationships are the same. Subject to occasional mood swings, clashes in personality, priorities, misunderstandings, and external stressors. However, arguments or disagreements that occur within healthy relationships are isolated incidents. When they happen in unhealthy […]
Having a Solid Support System
Having a solid support system following an abusive relationship is vital to a survivor’s healing and recovery journey. After an abusive situation, life is chaotic. Very often, survivors don’t know where to turn or what to do. Many are just going through the motions of barely surviving. That’s why it’s incredibly helpful to have a […]