By Survivor Kimmy
**The following is written by a survivor of domestic violence and abuse. Descriptions and details may be too graphic for some. Names have been changed to protect all involved.**
All in all, I hope this message finds you well. My name is Kimmy and I am reaching out to share a bit of my journey and seek a community where I can find belonging and support.
I am a survivor of significant trauma, born into a challenging situation that shaped my early years. The harsh lessons I learned were so difficult.
Starting With My Mother
My mother experienced unspeakable hardships, which deeply influenced our relationship and my sense of identity. Despite these early adversities, I fought through numerous battles. Relying on my resilience to navigate a childhood filled with fear and uncertainty.
My mother was raped and I was born into trauma from conception. I was locked in a small 5’10 room left to sit and wait for her to come. Then she would demean, harm, and degrade me. I had a sign on my door that read ‘Pig Pen ‘.
Torment every day.
I was removed at 9 yrs old by my ex step father. He saw belt marks on my face and he demanded I leave with him.
He never physically abused me and did the best he could, but no love or comfort was ever given to me.
Escaping All I Knew
At 14 I left home living under docks in Florida, and wound up on the streets in Colorado. Eventually, Job core was available to me and I graduated there in 1984.
I stayed homeless through age 25 and got pregnant with my daughter the 2 sons. We lived in homeless shelters for 4 years, and the lessons I took from that were more than most could bear.
Who I Am Today
I am now 61 yrs old. I was tough enough to raise my kids, but I am always dealing with the unforgettable abuse I suffered.
Now I have no idea who I am as an adult.
I am a performer in music so I control my life by acting in front of everyone. I have tools to share, but I’m afraid no one will listen.
When endured abuse, homelessness, and the struggle for survival, I often faced these challenges alone. Yet, I learned to find strength within myself, turning pain into perseverance. Now at 61, I continue to carry the weight of my past but strive to embrace the person I am meant to become.
Lessons on Life
Throughout my life, I have sought to transform my experiences into a source of empowerment, not just for myself, but also serve for lessons for others who may share similar stories.
I am eager to connect with like-minded individuals and organizations that understand the journey of healing and resilience.
I believe that sharing my story can inspire hope and foster connection within a community built on empathy and support. All in all, I would love the opportunity to contribute, learn, and grow alongside others who have faced their own challenges the own lessons.
Check These Resources:
- Therapeutic Interventions for Healing From Domestic Violence
- The Hidden Impact of Teen Dating Violence
- Find Support with BTSADV
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